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….Having Pets Instead Of Kids Should Be Considered A Psychiatric Disorder

I don’t agree. My last post on this subject, Overpopulation crisis, is not having kids selfish? still holds true for me. Matt Walsh also did a blog on this, We couldn’t afford to have kids yet that still doesn’t change my thoughts on this subject. Life is too stressful to really have an urge to want children. I struggle with anxiety with the smallest of problems. Just the idea of me having children is too overwhelming. Everyone else that doesn’t want children probably go through the same thought process as me or thinking a similar thing for a different reason. Such as the finances. Having a child is by no means cheap, one child is more expensive then buying a $500,000 home. While more than likely you’ll be married with someone else so you will have additional support with family as well there is no telling what will occur. So i will list some reasons i don’t want to have children.

    1. I already deal with too much stress. I need to reduce the stress in my life, not add to it. You can see some of my previous posts on how stress overwhelms me and i get anxiety when it gets to a certain level. While i tend to only look at the negative, it’s just something that i have to deal with and the best way to deal with it is to avoid negative or stressful situations. If i get too much anxiety i can get a nervous breakdown and then i’ll be in trouble. I don’t deal with life situations the way everyone else does, if something is stressing me out i need to leave it!
    2. I’m not a people person. I do like talking and socializing to people from time to time, but as an introvert i need time to myself. Having kids, i would be around people all the time and i really can’t do that.
    3. I don’t want kids… because someone says i should have them or think i am more than capable of handling them. Such as the people in this article you don’t know my life situations, nor do you know what i can or can’t handle. I can’t handle a whole lot. It becomes too much. Sorry, just because you think i could handle having kids doesn’t mean i should have kids. At this point in time i won’t regret not having them and i don’t think i’ll regret having them in the future. I do not want the responsibility of caring for children.
    4. The world is in constant chaos. Think Chicago shootings, Google that and get back to me. That’s just a sliver of the problems in this world. The president of the United States, Donald Trump has sparked outrage and this seems like a clear indication of a 2nd Civil War if people do not calm themselves.
    5. Plenty of others have the urge… to reproduce. No seriously, there’s people who have more than 8 children. The world has plenty of people in this world. No, seriously it’s not a big deal if i don’t have kids. As much as some people may think we need to put more ethical, spiritual children on this planet there is always the opportunity to teach the ones that are already in this world for those willing to learn.

More people on this planet will not solve the worlds problems. We need to put the right people in charge to fix the problems. Anyone can become a doctor, a scientist, a lawyer or a politician but it takes a person of special skills in those areas to get things done properly, if said person uses their powers for good. And some will step up to the plate. There are people in this world who already are capable of fixing the worlds problems. It’s whether or not they know it yet. And if i ever do decide to have kids, i’ll adopt. Not that it will happen or that i will ever be ready for it, it’s just that would be the next logical step. I believe we need to help others already in this world, not bring more people into this world. And who knows, maybe i do have a mental disorder. It certainly isn’t because i don’t want children but because i get stressed out over little things.

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No seriously i wonder if it’s laziness, depression, tiredness or a simple case of idgaf because no one ever comes over. It’s not that bad now, i did clean it up to an acceptable point and i keep telling myself, this time it’ll work, but it ends up being..

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because generally when i’m at work i’m thinking, today’s that day i’m going to clean…

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and it’s the usual excuse, i’m too tired. I’m also only home 2 days a week (because i stay at someones house during the weekday for work) so that is generally the culprit but no, even during the week i get lazy and ‘forget’. It wasn’t always like this, when i first moved in, i always kept it pretty clean though most of the stuff i have was still in the packing crates. And it would always get progressively worse. It generally happened during the holidays where i would just be too tired, because working in retail was too stressful,
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but it turned into an everyday thing where it was easier to turn on a gaming system, computer or put on movies for the night than to pick up a broom and sweep. No one will care anyway right?

My apartments like to do a yearly inspection and not bother to tell you until a week (sometimes less, like 2 days).

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So they’re not even in the same month range. It would make sense to do it during the yearly renewal but they seem to not always do that. So now it takes me scrambling to get the place clean because i fail at being proactive and just keep it clean to begin with. Seriously if i spend an hour cleaning a week i wouldn’t care. But it still is a problem where i’d only clean when someone is visiting. So other than me getting into the routine of, “i’m too tired/lazy to do it” i ponder whether or not the last girl i was interested in didn’t do something.

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Yes, i was rejected and not only that i was completely fine with being friends which was my original intention but i had people going,
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which actually ruined any chances of being best friends with her, because she would always assume that was interested in her which i was but she didn’t need to know that and again was completely fine with being friends.
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but again, that was perfectly fine if i was friendzoned, but i wasn’t just friendzoned, i was work-friendzoned. Anyway, i’m not looking for anyone nor i really want to find someone, which is another topic, Transgenders is a big reason i do not date or have a relationship so for the other major reason i do not date or am not in a relationship is because while rejection is a part of life, it’s not really something i am willing to put up with when i could be focusing on other stuff, like not cleaning the house…

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So i’m going to have to come up with some sort of gameplan to keep my place clean and to avoid being lazy, tired or whatever. I doubt i am seriously depressed, maybe a touch of it but certainly not enough to really avoid doing housework. I got it done for now but i need to keep it clean and not cluttered.

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Back in about 2015, Kenneth Zucker’s clinic was falsely accused and shut down, A False Accusation Helped Bring Down Kenneth Zucker, a Controversial Sex Researcher recently came out with a documentary, BBC’s Controversial Documentary on the Gender-Dysphoria Researcher Kenneth Zucker

Transgender Kids: Who Knows Best? (video only works in the UK)

If you can find the documentary, by torrent or by any other way get your hands on it because it shows there is again, a cure for gender dysphoria. It is a very good alternative to allowing your child to become transgender. Activists are upset that, Transgender activists concerned about film this film could increase discrimination against transgender people which is most likely true, but they are already facing high rates of discrimination overall. Even in the documentary, transgender activists do not like alternative therapy. In their mindset transitioning is the only cure/treatment and people need to live with it. They are also headstrung on allowing children to be transgender. But, it is not the best course of action. In the video, and by transgender activism it’s, let your child be transition or they die. Already people are scared to really speak up and really debate the transgender issue, more importantly transgender children. Recently Nat Geo showed a photo and released a magazine dedicated to transgender children. Already ACP, Pediatricians condemn National Geographic over 9-year-old ‘trans’ child on January cover has stated, College of Pediatricians Calls Transgender Ideology ‘Child Abuse’ is child abuse

With the constant negativity surrounding transgenders (only 22% support transgender rights in America) and transgender children we need people like Kenneth Zucker treating gender dysphoria in children properly. He takes a non invasive approach, “developmentally-informed therapy” and none of the kids hated going to see Dr. Zucker, in fact they thought it was quite pleasant. Nothing reparative or electroshocking here like so many transgenders fear. Those days are generally in the past although there may be some people who still practice conversion therapy today, just not in clinics. More like in a parents basement. Whatever the case is, conversion therapy doesn’t work. Transitioning doesn’t work either seeing how high the suicide rates are for transgenders. And the sad part is the transgender activism thinks they are actually helping out those with gender dysphoria but really it’s just a means to an end. In the documentary, 90% of those who went to Dr. Zucker for treatment came out cured. That’s really a big difference from say 50-60% success rate for transitioning treatments. Those that would not be, if going by the 1.4 million transgender statistics that would be, 140,000 Americans who will continue to struggle with gender dysphoria. But, if these 140,000 Americans were analyzed.. better treatments could work. But this greatly depends if any of them are intersex (which is a completely different condition and should not be associated with transgenders) and whether the survey is accurate.

So that 140,000 number could be different and could be very less or more depending on the circumstances. Whatever the case is 90% would not have to worry about being discriminated against. They would live out as their assigned birth gender and not have to worry about additional dating issues and having the proper documentation along with housing, job and family rejection. But the transgender activism won’t have it. We have to watch out for these types of people who are constantly one track minded telling people if they do not transition or if they do not let their children transition they will die. They will feel hopeless, deserted, depressed, anxiety and suicidal. As proven time and time again, transgenders will be depressed and suicidal regardless if they were allowed to be transgender. So the best method we have at this point is Kenneth Zucker’s form of treatment. With a 90% success rate over a 50-60%, that’s a 30-40% better chance with far better results. Already children have 90% chance of growing out of their gender dysphoria with Kenneth Zucker, that success rate will be higher. However, with the transgender activism running rampant (especially in Canada) that 90% chance of growing out will be reduced. By indulging in the child’s fantasy of being the wrong gender, they will grow up thinking that is their actual gender and go through with being transgender with hormone therapy.

As mentioned by others, transgender ideology is child abuse and it’s a mental illness that should be treated, not encouraged. However, transgender activists will continue to try to stop that and continue to fight for transgender rights, however it is the expense of children who have gender dysphoria that have a 40% suicide risk. Kenneth Zucker’s treatment is the most idealistic, ethical and logical method. We need more ethical doctors like Kenneth who is not afraid to stand up for what is right and moral. He does not willingly put children through harm and has a 90% success rate of curing gender dysphoria. Others like Walt Heyer and other ex-transgender people share a similar story that children should not be subjected to being transgender. Sorry transgender activists, but you do not have the right to meddle with children and force parents into accepting that their child is transgender. Transgender activists limit any alternative methods in gender dysphoria treatments and claim that transitioning is the only solution. That is called manipulation. I pray that more doctors such as Kenneth Zucker will continue to properly treat children who have gender dysphoria and we need better methods so that 100% of those that experience gender dysphoria can be treated and will eliminate or reduce discrimination.

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There is plenty of evidence supporting transgender insanity. One of them in which uses a youtube account,

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who is clearly pushing the transgender agenda onto children. Claims to be helping them and then threatens the death penalty to anyone who is discriminatory against transgenders. The fact that this ‘woman’ is clearly male is near children and advocating violence against those who are anti-transgender. We already know how unstable transgenders are, Transgender Activists Derail Free Speech Rally Supporting Professor Refusing to Use Gender Pronouns there was also another incident a while back but transgenders and the activists are all completely wacked out but professionals won’t do anything about it. Instead they are advocating that these people become transgender by offering hormones and sex changes. It’s a never ending abyss of insanity. The ‘transwoman’ in that video clearly is not a woman because no woman has ever acted that crazy before, sounds more like a rant from a sissy dude that still has trouble understanding how insane they are.

And sorry if i sound a bit rude but i am fed up with this transgender mental asylum. Another story, BBC Under Fire for ‘Transgender Diaries’ Program Aimed at Children as Young as Six which is good that it’s under fire but not so much that BBC is still allowing this program to continue. The violence against transgenders are ramping up, Transgender Butchered, Cut To Pieces — Liberal Media Silent For 1 Reason and the reason these people are silent is because, besides avoiding the reason making it into a Muslim issue is that the transgender community does not want society to be aware of the increasing violence against transgenders.

If you google transgender violence it’s pretty high but one thing they won’t tell you is that many transgenders are violent as well. Some is being reported in alternative news but for the most part it’s pretty quiet and unless you know where to look you won’t find much and that is because the mainstream liberal media doesn’t want people to know just how bad everything is for transgenders. The main reason for transgender violence is that transgenders have been found out as sex offenders, Convicted Sex Offender Leads Transgender Rights Effort in North Carolina

Top Twenty-Five Stories Proving Target’s Pro-Transgender Bathroom Policy Is Dangerous to Women and Children

Male Sex Offenders’ Transgender Surgeries Could Cost Taxpayers Over $100,000

This is the worst thing to spend money on, especially on people who are not even worth it. But this is what they are doing with our taxpayers money. Probably Obama had something to do with this but hopefully that will change. Why help a criminal get what they want? Why is the government not handing out free Ferraris then? This is how ridiculous the transgender movement really is. And professionals are allowing children to decide whether to transition. Something that really should be up to the parent and no professional should be advocating transitioning or hormone blockers to kids. There’s already plenty of proof how dangerous these drugs really are and if that’s not enough ex transgenders like Walt Heyer continues to educate people that transgender is a mental illness, not born with it, not innate it’s a learned trait. But will the transgender community ever see it that way? No, because they are in complete denial they have a mental illness and transitioning is not a proper treatment. Therapy would be a good start but there’s a good chance the violence against transgenders will get worse before these people realize that transitioning was a bad idea in the first place. Nevermind that transitioning does not eliminate the amount of mental illnesses that transgenders have, one of them would be psychosis, the belief that they are born in the wrong body when in fact they are not even aware of the delusions they are facing.

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http://www.nationalreview.com/article/439126/transgender-teens-parents-rapid-onset-gender-dysphoria-doctors

It seems that this transgender thing continues to escalate in both praise and in extreme prejudice. This week we find out new things, transgenders being able to compete in the Olympics and a transgender being set on fire, brutally mutilated.

http://www.france24.com/en/20160819-turkey-lgbt-trasgender-activist-death-highlights-rise-hate-crimes-hande-kader

And the transgender activism continues to deflect the increasing violence in favor for a forced acceptance. It’s like “oh, it’s because transgenders are being discriminated against and it needs to stop!” except that it won’t stop. The violence against transgenders are at an all time high.. http://fox17online.com/2015/08/18/transgender-woman-killed-after-being-run-over-multiple-times/

And more recently… http://abc7.com/news/transgender-teen-intentionally-struck-by-hit-and-run-driver/1276418/

Showing that children are not safe from the violence against transgenders. It’s really hard to say how high the violence against transgenders are, the only thing that has been commonly repeated is that transgenders are 41% likely to commit suicide. With the increased publicity of transgenders that percentage would be even higher. So even with a new survey, it would be difficult to believe that the percentage would be lower, whether or not that is actually true because well.. you just can’t trust what these people say at face value. Maybe perhaps the reason the percentage of violence has not really been announced because transgender activists would know well enough any fuel for those against transgender ideology would be slamming it in their face so the only thing they did was count how many transgenders there are in the US alone.

http://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/01/health/transgender-population.html

As if that was even true, you can’t prove or disprove that but it can be proven that transgenders are at higher risk of suicide/murder based on the fact that transgenders are feeling the pressure at the bathroom issue alone. While that’s not a definitive proof or answer one would think, increased discrimination at the bathrooms would increase the suicide/death toll of transgenders. At least here in the US anyway. But if that’s not enough even Hollywood’s view of transgender hasn’t changed much.

http://www.dailydot.com/irl/reassignment-film-michelle-rodriguez-forced-gender-surgery/

Michelle Rodriguez’s new film depicts that transgenders are being forced to have a sex reassignment or a different gender. While it would symbolically sound like if a person were to wake up one day and be the opposite sex/gender without their consent that’s what transgenders face on day to day basis. Yet transgenders are disappointed by this film which already has shifted and people will already get the idea that transgenders are being forced to change their gender/sex because a doctor said so. This further or justify the discrimination even more against transgenders. Even some recent shows such as the X-Files revival “Scully and Mulder meet the Were-man” (or Were-Monster) which plainly describes who transgender people are and how altering your gender is going a bit too far.

Supernatural has brought up the topic in a recent episode though i have yet to see it. A couple others out there, mostly transvestite comedy from shows including Family Guy. And an early episode of NCIS where Tony is attracted to a woman who was once a man. You can see even Gibbs was slightly disgusted when he first found out that ‘she’s a he’. Though the episode aired in sometime in the early 2000’s it’s still how most would react but some react with more rage and hatred as seen on the news. But there’s plenty of people who are not aware, don’t read the news or own a smartphone and when they find out they often will react with disgust.

I do not believe that this will stop or slow down at any time. Come back after 10 years but really the situation with transgenders will only continue to get worse while they may be obtaining more rights as citizens.. that certainly doesn’t stop the ever growing discrimination. Really as it has been mentioned the only way to fix this problem is for professionals to get their heads outta their ass and start providing those with gender dysphoria a realistic treatment that does not involve a sex/gender change. Because besides a very small group of intersex people who should not be discriminated against and have tolerance for, those who have working private parts and no physical problems should have their mind matching their body, not body matching the mind because that doesn’t make any sense. Professionals have been proven that the mind can be manipulated and the proper course of action is to fix the mind and the problem will go away on it’s own. Not lets change everything about our culture for the 0.6% of the population.

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Target recently announced that they allow transgenders in their restrooms and even work for them. That wasn’t very bright considering Target has been doing well but AFA wrote a petition and as of right now it’s over 300,000 people who are boycotting Target

https://www.afa.net/action-alerts/sign-the-boycott-target-pledge/

and signed AFA’s pledge to boycott. That’s pretty bad especially since this started on Friday  and i worked at Target, the average consumer spends about $60-80 there. Add up the numbers with how many people are boycotting and Target is going to get hit a lot harder than the recession or the credit card hacks. And the numbers keep rising. Just from overnight an additional 100,000 signatures on the AFA site. This was a very poor business move from Target. They could have added the gender equality quietly and no one would have known either way but now that they announced it, it’s getting the media attention, quicker than the credit card and people still shopped there, but paid in cash. So even with the credit card fiasco Target didn’t do too bad and they even came out with new card readers and credit card chips. But this is will definitely kill Target. Even if they were to back out, i’d say that less people are going to want to shop at Target and i don’t doubt that by the end of this month AFA will get over a million signatures which will really damage Target’s credibility.

I’m unsure if i am going to keep shopping at Target myself, i’ll simply wait and see.. i mostly buy from Amazon.com and whatever i normally get at Target, which is mostly food i’ll most likely get at Aldi’s for the time being, not because i am against Target’s policy or that i want Target to suffer but they were not very bright and chances are Target may be in big trouble to the point where they may end up having to start closing stores down so i’m going to have to find a different place to go (not Walmart). I am against the idea of transitioning and this is the end result, with all the businesses and music artists banning NC for writing what otherwise is a proper competent law, it’s really a bad idea to transition and Target is simply getting into something that they shouldn’t be doing or they could have very well done it quietly. This transgender epidemic has caused a modern day civil war against one another. It has divided this country and people are forced to make sacrifices. It’s really just foolish.

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Despite making some headway in creating a more safer environment for women and children, the transgender mafia continues to make things more difficult.

Paypal,

http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2016/04/05/paypal-cancels-plan-to-bring-400-new-jobs-to-north-carolina-because-of-its-controversial-new-law/

for an example was going to bring new jobs to NC but backed out at the last minute because they didn’t like NC’s trans bill law, which by the way 100s of people have cancelled their Paypal accounts so it’s unlikely Paypal would be opening a new facility, so really it’s Paypal’s loss not North Carolina.

It’s funny considering there was this other big thing,

http://www.breitbart.com/big-government/2016/03/07/convicted-sex-offender-leads-transgender-rights-effort-north-carolina/

which is completely ignored as “oh so you found 1 convicted sex offender” and if you look up more info on transgender sex offenders you’ll find that it’s a huge mess. So NC wrote and signed in a law that prevents these sex offenders from waltzing into the ladies room because they ‘identify as transgender’. Furthermore, this law will allow people to kick out anyone who doesn’t belong in the ladies room and the heavy push against this law makes me wonder, the only people really affected by this law would be sex offenders. If you dress appropriately you can use the bathroom you identify as and there is no problem because who is going to post security guards at every bathroom entrance? Maybe some private company but at Walmart or Sears no one is going to care and the only people losing in this battle are the companies such as Paypal and Disney.

http://www.vulture.com/2016/04/nc-congressman-calls-springsteen-a-bully.html
http://www.redstate.com/kimberly_ross/2016/04/09/dear-transgender-movement-youre-new-civil-rights/

http://forward.com/opinion/338030/whats-really-behind-the-angst-over-transgender-bathrooms/

http://www.theblaze.com/contributions/no-gays-and-transgenders-are-not-being-bullied-they-are-the-bullies/

Some other links related to this topic and nothing really has changed, however businesses and artists are getting upset over this new law, yet did they bother to read and understand it and wonder is anyone actually going to enforce this law let alone know if someone is transgender? Transgenders are at risk no matter what bathroom they use. The fact is whether this law protects transgenders or singles them out it’s not going to matter either way. They are still targeted.

Vigil Held For Transgender Teen Critically Injured In Hit-And-Run

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/news/a44787/transgender-teen-jazz-jennings-shares-the-horrifying-death-threats-she-gets/

With the lack of common sense, it’s really quite amazing that these people have gotten this far in life but the average lifespan of a transgender is 30 years that sounds a bit more plausible.

http://www.vocativ.com/culture/lgbt/transgender-suicide/

But this activism completely ignores the results of their shallow lifestyle. Its really bothersome but this generally a symptom of a greater problem that has been seemingly ignored by professionals.

http://www.thefederalistpapers.org/us/american-college-of-pediatricians-calls-transgender-for-minors-child-abuse

Transgender Characters May Win Emmys, But Transgender People Hurt Themselves

http://www.charismanews.com/opinion/clarion-call/55980-8-reasons-why-transgender-conditioning-is-child-abuse

Only a select few have been speaking their minds, including Walt Heyer. Which is often ignored by the transgender community, either because they are unable to see or understand reality or that the transgender community really is being driven by sex offenders, which one was already found out in North Carolina. The truth will eventually come out and transitioning will be a thing of the past. This is peak transgender times right now and evidently they are having their prime time right now but eventually will fail, in a really major way. There isn’t a whole lot of success right now and the anti trans laws will continue to make its way onto governor desks, discrimination won’t change, while transgender activists may change a few hundred minds there’s another few hundred minds that are not convinced and won’t fall for any of it.  In fact with now transgender teen deaths, something that was unheard of a decade ago is suddenly becoming the norm.

While they keep spewing false lies such as this, http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2016/04/talking-people-about-gay-and-transgender-issues-can-change-their-prejudices

http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/early/2016/02/24/peds.2015-3223

It’s going to actually make things worse,

With NC’s success in writing a comprehensive safe law for women and children and this law for the most part, well again dress appropriately and you won’t have any problems that more states are working on a law like NC, http://fivethirtyeight.com/features/with-north-carolina-seven-other-states-are-considering-restricting-bathrooms-for-transgender-people/

If they do it right it will work. It is not our responsibility to accommodate those who were not properly treated. As Matt Walsh has said, it’s not the people who are the bullies, it’s the transgender activism. Most people were unaware of transgenders so how could they get bullied? 2015, transgender murders skyrocketed. Now we have transgender teens getting run over, bullied to suicide,

http://www.advocate.com/transgender/2015/10/07/san-diego-mourns-fourth-trans-teen-lost-suicide-year

and constant death threats it’s a wonder why this is continually being sanctioned. It should be outlawed and adults shouldn’t be making transition a choice for children. Allowing or saying it’s ok to let your boy be a girl is child abuse! People should be more upset that there are doctors who allow this sort of thing than trying to single out the parents for making such a poor choice for their child. The problem is, the transgender activism is not helping, bullying parents into believing that transitioning for their child is the only option. Really, this is what the kind of laws politicians should be making is banning transitioning treatments for children, because then there wouldn’t be such a huge backlash on anti-trans laws if there is more common sense employed instead of ‘oh my child think he or she is trans’. No they are confused and these parents are helping the confusion. And these anti-trans laws are definitive proof that these parents are not understanding what is really going on in the world with transgenders. Society is discriminative towards transgenders, it’s a fact of reality and lawmakers are reacting to a situation they know nothing about. And it’s really disturbing that this is still continuing, http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/girl-put-transgender-house-hate-church-article-1.2591708

This 8 year old kid is going to have quite a lot of death threats if it’s not happening already. It is unacceptable and the parents should be ashamed of themselves for even allowing this to be on the news. Pretty soon this sort of thing will be as common as parents leaving thier children in hot cars.

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